books.google.co.uk - You may be planning a totally laid back wedding on the beach, surrounded by a few close friends and family members, followed by an informal clambake "reception." Surprisingly, in spite of the relaxed setting and casual ceremony, if you want to avoid hurt feelings and damaged relationships, certain rules...http://books.google.co.uk/books/about/Diane_Warner_s_Contemporary_Guide_To_Wed.html?id=gF-JHYlT_iEC&utm_source=gb-gplus-shareDiane Warner's Contemporary Guide To Wedding Etiquette