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bear an exterior decency in their sickness, and regulate their voice, their face, their discourse, and all their circumstances, by the measures and proportions of comeliness and satisfaction to all the standers by. But this would better please them, than assist him; the sick man would do more good to others, than he would receive to himself.

2. Therefore silence, and still composures, and not complaining, are no parts of a sick man's duty; they are not necessary parts of Patience §. We find that David roared for the very disquietness of his sickness; and he lay chattering like a swallowi, and his throat was dry with calling for help upon his God. That is the proper voice of sickness: and certain it is that the proper voices of sickness are expressly vocal and petitory in the ears of God, and call for pity in the same accent as the cries and expressions of widows and orphans do for vengeance upon their persecutors, though they say no collect against them. For there is the voice of man, and there is the voice of the disease; and God hears both; and the louder the disease speaks, there is the greater need of mercy and pity, and therefore God will the sooner hear it. Abel's blood had a voice1, and cried to God; and humility hath a voice, and cries so loud to God that it pierces the clouds; and so hath every sorrow and every sickness and when a man cries out, and complains but according to the sorrows of his pain, it cannot be any part of a culpable impatience, but an argument for pity.

3. Some men's senses are so subtle, and their

Concedendum est gementi.

h Ps. xxxviii. 8.

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1 Isa. xxxviii. 14. of Hezekiah.-ED. k Ps. lxix. 3. 1 Gen. iv. 10.

ceptions so quick and full of relish, and their spirits so active, that the same load is double upon them to what it is to another person: and therefore comparing the expressions of the one to the silence of the other, a different judgment cannot be made concerning their Patience. Some natures are querulous, and melancholic, and soft, and nice, and tender, and weeping, and expressive; others are sullen, dull, without apprehension, apt to tolerate and carry burdens: and the Crucifixion of our Blessed Saviour falling upon a delicate and virgin body, of curious temper, and strict equal composition, was naturally more full of torment than that of the ruder thieves, whose proportions were coarser and uneven.

4. In this case it was no imprudent advice which Cicero gave: Nothing in the world is more amiable than an even temper in our whole life, and in every action: but this evenness cannot be kept, unless every man follows his own nature, without striving to imitate the circumstances of another m. And what is so in the thing itself, ought to be so in our judgments concerning the things. We must not call any one impatient, if he be not silent in a fever, as if he were asleep; or as if he were dull, as Herod's son of Athens ".

5. Nature in some cases hath made cryings out and exclamations to be an entertainment of the spirit, and an abatement or diversion of the pain. For so

m Omnino si quicquam est decorum, nihil est profectò magis, quàm æquabilitas universæ vitæ, tum singularum actionum; quam autem conservare non possis, si, aliorum naturam imitans, omittas tuam.-1 Offic. c. 31.

That is, 'as the son of Herod of Athens.'-For the remarkable stupidity of Atticus, the son of Herodes Atticus,, see Fabricius, Bibl. Græc., t. iv. p. 372.-ED.

did the old champions, when they threw their fatal nets that they might load their enemy with the snares and weights of death; they groaned aloud, and sent forth the anguish of their spirit into the eyes and heart of the man that stood against them: So it is in the endurance of some sharp pains; the complaints and shriekings, the sharp groans and the tender accents, send forth the afflicted spirits, and force a way, that they may ease their oppression and their load; that, when they have spent some of their sorrows by a sally forth, they may return better able to fortify the heart. Nothing of this is a certain sign, much less an action or part, of Impatience; and when our Blessed Saviour suffered His last and sharpest pang of sorrow, He cried out with a loud voice, and resolved to die, and did so.

SECT. III.

Constituent or integral parts of Patience.

1. THAT we may secure our Patience, we must take care that our complaints be without despair. Despair sins against the reputation of God's Goodness, and the efficacy of all our old experience. By despair we destroy the greatest comfort of our sorrows, and turn our sickness into the state of Devils and perishing souls. No affliction is greater than despair: for that is it which makes hell-fire, and turns a natural evil into an intolerable; it hinders prayers, and fills up the intervals of sickness with a worse torture; it

• Quia profundendâ voce omne corpus intenditur, venitque plaga vehementior.-Cic. Tusc. P Matth. xxvii. 50.

makes all spiritual arts useless, and the office of spiritual comforters and guides to be impertinent.

Against this Hope is to be opposed: and its proper acts, as it relates to the virtue and exercise of Patience, are, 1. Praying to God for help and remedy; 2. Sending for the guides of souls; 3. Using all holy exercises and acts of grace proper to that state: which whoso does, hath not the Impatience of despair; every man that is patient, hath hope in God in the day of his sorrows.

2. Our complaints in sickness must be without murmur. Murmur sins against God's Providence and government: by it we grow rude, and, like the falling Angels, displeased at God's supremacy; and nothing is more unreasonable: it talks against God, for Whose glory all speech was made; it is proud and fantastic, hath better opinions of a sinner than of the Divine Justice, and would rather accuse God than himself.

Against this is opposed that part of Patience which resigns the man into the hands of God, saying with old Eli, "It is the Lord, let Him do what He will;" and, "Thy will be done in earth as it is in heaven;" and so by admiring God's Justice and Wisdom, does also dispose the sick person for receiving God's mercy, and secures him the rather in the grace of God. The proper acts of this part of Patience are, 1. To confess our sins and our own demerits: 2. It increases and exercises humility: 3. It loves to sing praises to God, even from the lowest abyss of human misery.

3. Our complaints in sickness must be without peevishness. This sins against civility, and that ne

q 1 Sam. iii. 18.

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cessary decency which must be used toward the ministers and assistants. By peevishness we increase our own sorrows, and are troublesome to them that stand there to ease ours. It hath in it harshness of nature and ungentleness, wilfulness and fantastic opinions, morosity and incivility.

Against it are opposed obedience, tractability, easiness of persuasion, aptness to take counsel. The acts of this part of Patience are, 1. To obey our physicians; 2. To treat our persons with respect to our present necessities: 3. Not to be ungentle and uneasy to the ministers and nurses that attend us"; but to take their diligent and kind offices as sweetly as we can, and to bear their indiscretions or unhandsome accidents contentedly and without disquietness within, or evil language or angry words without; 4. Not to use unlawful means for our recovery.

If we secure these particulars, we are not lightly to be judged of by noises and postures, by colours and images of things, by paleness, or tossings from side to side. For it were a hard thing that those persons who are loaden with the greatest of human calamities should be strictly tied to ceremonies and forms of things. He is patient, that calls upon God; that hopes for health or Heaven; that believes God is wise and just in sending him afflictions; that confesses his sins, and accuses himself, and justifies God; that expects God will turn this into good; that is civil to his physicians and his servants; that converses with the guides of Souls, the ministers of Religion; and in all things submits to God's will, and

Vide Ch. iv. Sect. 1.

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