Asperger Syndrome - A Love Story

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Jessica Kingsley Publishers, Jun 15, 2007 - Psychology - 144 pages

Open, honest and upbeat, this book gives personal insight into both the ups and downs of an Asperger relationship. Seeking to challenge the bad press that people with Asperger Syndrome (AS) get as partners, Sarah and Keith tell their story of how they are making it work - and also how they got it wrong - with disarming frankness and humour.

When Sarah and Keith met in 2003 neither knew much about Asperger Syndrome. Sarah thought Keith was `weird' and couldn't work out why; and Keith thought Sarah was obsessed with diagnosing him with something-or-other. Difficulties ensued that brought the relationship to an end. Slowly, however, they each built up their knowledge of AS and in the meantime developed a mutual understanding, mutual acceptance and a desire to be together again.

This personal account is supplemented with professional knowledge and anecdotes gained from Sarah's work with adults with AS - a career which started as a result of her experiences with Keith. She swears that she didn't take her work home with her! It is inspiring reading for couples in Asperger relationships as well as for counselling professionals.

 

Contents

Introduction Setting the Scene
13
1 How Did I Get Here?
17
2 Diagnosis
27
3 RelationshipMk I Who Is ThisWeirdoCrazy Woman?
43
4 The End of the Beginning Splitting Up
53
5 RelationshipMk II Not SoWeirdCrazy After All
61
6 Practicalities
81
7 Speaking Asperger as a Second Language
91
8 TheWorld According to Keith
99
9 Change Certainty and Cantankerousness
107
10 Communication
111
11 Payoffs Sad Days and Thoughts
123
12 Conclusion
135
REFERENCES
139
RESOURCES
141
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About the author (2007)

Sarah Hendrickx works as a freelance trainer and consultant in autistic spectrum conditions through her own consultancy, Hendrickx Associates. She provides professional training, Expert Witness and employment consultancy to organisations and coaching to individuals, families and couples. She is the author of several books on Asperger syndrome published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers as well as the co-author of Asperger Syndrome – A Love Story written with her partner Keith, who has been diagnosed with AS.

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